When a couple falls in love, they tend to show each other the positive side of self, trying their best to hide the other which they believe can make their partner dislike them. It is quite common for teenagers stepping into the realm of love for the first time. Initially, they are also likely to see the pleasant side of their lover, completely oblivious to the other part. But, as the courtship period is prolonged, the couple finds it difficult accepting the other part of their partner which, either they chose to ignore earlier or it was deliberately kept away from the sight. This new revelation gets them surprised and fazed, causing them to pine for the perfection in a relationship they always craved for. At this phase, either the couple learns to adjust and accommodate to the new reality and stay together or they tend to move away. The latter is easier to do, but the couple moving away because they can’t accept this new reality, are likely to deprive themselves of one of the most important lessons of life, that people in this world don’t come in black or white. Everyone comes with shades of grey. We must understand that looking for perfection in a relationship or a person is not pragmatic approach at all.

We all have behaviours that make us likeable. But at the same time, we have set of behaviours that might be unacceptable by others. A girl, very caring and loving, can be a bit careless or self-centred at the same time. A boy, appearing very strong and determined, can have a tendency to feel weak in certain life situations. The true love consists of accepting your partner with their shortcomings, quirks and foibles. A couple in a courtship period must understand and respect each other the way they are. Demanding too much from each to change behaviours will cause unrest. One must give his or her partner enough space to make sure that the relationship doesn’t deteriorate. The secret to long lasting love and respect for each other lies in accepting positives and negatives of one’s partner.

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