As love blossoms between two individuals, in the initial phase, both the partners tend to see the bright side of each other’s personality. But, after spending some time with each other, the initial feelings tend to wear off with both looking at each other in a more pragmatic way. Besides considering each other’s behaviour and attitude towards life, age difference is something that can really be a deciding factor in a relationship. A couple falling in love might not pay too much heed to the age gap between each other initially, but, after some time, the attention is bound to shift towards this anomaly, sometimes posing a serious threat to the future of the relationship. It is quite common sometimes for a female to fall for a male older to her, with a notion that elder males tend to be more considerate, well-behaving and stable partners. A male may fall in love with a younger girl, enjoying the mentorship and caring he might be showering upon her. With age, the attitude and thinking towards whatever we have been doing may change. For example, one who celebrates birthdays at the age of 25 or 26 with lot of pomp and show may stop doing that once he crosses 34 or 35. This attitude related to a particular age tends to make a lot of difference. A man of 34 might find a 24-year-old’s chirpiness as over-enthusiasm or a 32 year female may see the romantic pursuits of her younger partner as childish.

But, with a little bit of attitude change and understanding, even the age incompatibility can also be overcome. One in a relation with an older or younger partner must understand that age is just a number and maturity has got little to do with age. Maturity depends on one’s drives and attitudes towards life and they can be shaped by one’s thought process. It is also equally important for one to be well informed about the sensibilities of an older or new generation. Understanding the motivations and passions of another generation can help form equality with the person in question. One of the best ways to keep the relationship going is to nurture the same passions and hobbies because that might be one of the primary reasons two people came together. And above all, communication is the key to maintain the relationship. A couple with an age gap must make sure to be communicative about their desires as well as insecurities, thereby opening channels to talk and work out the issues.

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